Be Still and Real With Yourself

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Be Still and Real With Yourself

Love is not about convincing another of your sincerity when it comes to your Love for them, or how you feel about anything else. Love is about the free flowing motion of Sacred Energy which is responsible for the existence of all life and the Whole if Creation. Love is about unconditional acceptance and complete trust. If you have to convince another that your Love is real, and there isn't complete faith in your sincerity, the flow between the two of you is not the energy shared between True Lovers. True Love is governed by trust, and it is unconditional in nature; if what you are calling Love does not possess that, it is not True Love. That is not to say that there is something wrong with you and another if the two of you do not possess what it takes to be in an Intimate Love Relationship, it is simply saying that the path of an Intimate Love Relationship between the two of you is not meant to be, at least at this current moment in time. If that is the case, there is no need to invest any time in trying to convince someone into believing otherwise. We must be with the right person, also the timing must be right for such a Sacred Union to be right for both involved; if it is not, you are surely headed for disappointment and pain in the future. There is no need to settle for less, just to be in a relationship. To settle for less is telling the universe that you are open to be visited by turmoil and pain, and both will surely pay you a visit if you choose to travel down that path. If true Love is what we are seeking, we must be willing to do whatever it takes to achieve such, no matter how much patience and time that may entail.

What many do not understand is this; entering into a Love Relationship is not something that you just casually stroll into, because entering into such a relationship is very serious, because usually such is for a number of years or for a lifetime. Being in Love and making Love has become something that we do casually and for selfish pleasure, like playing a game or going to the movies; that is not Love at all. Before entering into to a Love relationship, most have to do some real deep soul-searching to see what their true definition of Love is, and what their true motive for wanting to be in Love is. However, the most important aspect of a Love relationship must be this; you must be able to accept and Love your partner unconditionally, with no exceptions. If we cannot accept the one we want to be with just as they are, without trying to change them in any way, and mold them into who we want them to be, and accept then for whom they are, and not what they have, we are deceiving ourselves in believing that we want True Love.

I must say and you must hear the following; Love is extremely serious, it is not something that we can casually stroll into and out of. There is a religious teaching that says and is true, that two must not be unequally yoked together. To be yoked together means to be attached together, actually the two becoming one. When we join together in a Love Relationship, we are taking on the other person in every way possible. We must understand that when lovers come together intimately, they actually become one in spirit, mind, and body. At the moment that two join together in intimate sexual union, what I prefer to call Making Love, a transformation takes place between the two of them. It has been scientifically proven that such a union causes the DNA structure of each individual to change; they actually start to become one on the cellular level. Have you ever wondered why some say the following, I know they are no good for me, and they are hurting and abusing me all of the time, but I just can’t seem to get myself to the place of leaving them. That is because they have taken on that person in a deeper way than they ever believed was possible, they have to some degree literally become one with that person, and because of that, unconsciously they believe to separate from that person would mean ripping themselves in half. If you asked them if they felt that way, they would more than likely say no. Nevertheless, unconsciously most who are in such a situation feel that way and they are helplessly being controlled by that.

The Love Relationship is the most important relationship there is and ever will be. The Love Relationship is the first relationship we experience, and that is our relationship with our Spiritual Parent Mama-Baba Goddess-God. Next comes the Love relationship we have with our mother in the heaven of her womb. The first Love Relationship is Purely Sacred in nature; the second is a combination of the Sacred and the physical. Because we are taught to focus on the wrong things, focus on that which is physical and not on that which is spiritual in nature, we start to distort Love in relationship to each other. You see; that which is Sacred is always pure and trustworthy, because of that there is no need to doubt it or fear it. However, that which is associated with the human intellect alone is suspect and not as dependable as that which is associated with True Love. We must redirect our focus as well as what we have placed our allegiance on. 

Some religions teach that God is Love; I know that teaching to be Absolute Truth, Mama-Baba Goddess-God is surely Love. Only through the Sacred Energy/Vibration of Love can the Whole of Creation be created with such Harmony and Oneness. If Mama-Baba Goddess-God is Love, then so are we, because we are one with Mama-Baba Goddess-God. Mama-Baba Goddess-God is likened unto the ocean and we are likened unto the multitude of drops of water that make up the ocean. A drop of water set aside by itself is but a drop of moisture that will evaporate rapidly, and cease to exists as a part of the larger body of water the ocean. Yet, because there is no such thing as an end or death, even the drop of evaporated water is eventually given another chance at becoming a part of the larger body the ocean. That is how it is with humanity, if we fail to flow with the oneness that we are eternally a part of, we will continue to go through incarnations until we get it and flow with the oneness, as we should. A major part of the oneness is having Unconditional Love for all of the members of the Whole of Creation, and that is definitely translated into our personal Love relationships.

We will never be able to have the Love relationship with Mama-Baba Goddess-God that we are supposed to have until we master having and maintaining the Love relationship we are supposed to have with each other. It is said and rightfully so, that we cannot Love another until we have learned how to Love ourselves. Well likewise so, we cannot have the Love Relationship that we are supposed to have with Mama-Baba Goddess-God, until we have mastered loving each other. That is why the Love Relationship/Marriage between man and womb-man was created at the beginning of this physical existence. If we are particles of Mama-Baba Goddess-God, that means that what we do to each other, we are actually doing to our Beloved Mama-Baba. So when someone abuses their partner, they are abusing Mama-Baba too. It is taught in a number of religions that God will say, whatever you did to one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did to me. We are fools to think that we can treat others in less than a respectful way. I am not saying that we will agree and get along all of the time. However, there is a proper way of disagreeing in Love. When two disagree one is usually correct and the other is missing the mark to some degree. Yet there are those times when both are wrong, which ever scenario we are faced with, properly dealing with our scenario will determine how long it will take us to reach clarity and true understanding. I remember my mother telling me this, don’t burn your bridges behind you, because you might find out that you went the wrong way and you might have to turn around and go back. She also told me to be careful how you treat people, because you will see the same people as you go up the ladder, as you will if you have to come back down the ladder. In addition to that, would it be allowed and right for you to walk up to your sister or brother in front of your mother and father and slap them in the face because you disagree with them? Of course it would not be allowed or right. Also, would you do the same thing to you mother and father? Now that is a loud resounding NO. How we treat each other is exactly how we are treating Mama-Baba Goddess-God.

To Love another is to do what comes natural to us. The way that people are acting in the world today is what is unnatural. We have been taught to act outside of our true loving nature. It does not matter where you live, the same distorted negative self indulgent energy is manifesting to some degree everywhere. That is the only reason why people can be killed and nothing is done about it outside of addressing a wrong negative action with another wrong negative action. If we learned to Truly Love on a personal level, there would not be the fear, anger, and deceit we see manifesting all over the world. We will never learn the reality of the statement, Love Conquers All, until we try it and allow it to be proven to us first hand. Almost everyone is afraid of loving and not being loved in return; we can never Love in vain. We have faith that when we put our foot on the brake in our car that it is going to stop, we have faith that when we turn on the light switch that the light will come on and we won’t get shocked, but we do not have enough faith in Mama-Baba Goddess-God to make sure that the Love we give out will return to us. Love given will be met with Love returned, that is a Sacred Guarantee. Even if that were not the case I would still Love, because I have never felt such joy and fulfillment as I get when I Love someone, and I am not talking about intimate sexual love. Sometimes I wish I could just grab the entire human race and shake it and wake it from its sleep of ignorance. They are looking for this and that to cure this and that, when Love can cure everything. Yes I said, “Love can cure EVERYTHING”.

Here is an example of what I am saying, something that has really happened. A man is working under his car, and his loving wife notices that the car has fallen off of the jack and pinned him under it, and there is no one around and if she waits for the ambulance he will probably die before they get there. Out of Love and desperation she grabs the car bumper and lifts the car off of him; Love did that. Love has also caused people to create cures for diseases that were said to be incurable. Love has also kept people alive who were trapped under collapsed buildings for weeks without food or water. With True Love All Things Good Are Possible.

We Must Stop Giving Place To Fear, Be Still, and Allow Love To Rule Supreme!

Baba-Kundi Ma`at-Shambhala
(SpiritWalker)
09.15.13